3 Reasons why you still cling on your ex
Love is so sweet and so much fun. There's nothing you could imagine when you are in so love with someone. Well, maybe to the point of forgetting the world. Love can sometimes make you in a crazy state, on behalf of satisfying one another. It's scary but it makes you felt the passion for it.
So, you had been a love for about 3 or 5 years. Or just like 6 or 10 months. Whatever the number is, what days, weeks, months or years, basically you've been in love and you know how that feels. Different people, different situations, different experiences. It doesn't matter what kind of Love you've been going through. The point is, you had the opportunity to feel what love is.
Okay, let me be honest with you. Love can be quiet interesting sometimes, but how about love being broken. And you love that person, but you can't get on with it. No matter, you are a boy or a girl, ex can be troublesome. There are some people who can move on with their life even though they've been broken heart and there are also some felt like the end of the world. What a world.
There are many reasons "why", but here are 3 reasons why you still cling on your ex.
3 reasons why you still cling on your ex.
1) You never experienced a break up before.
Admit it, when you are in the first day or 1-month anniversary, you feel like on top of the world. This world belongs to both of you. Sounds funny and cringe. Yet, that's how life stage is. Maybe, that was your first time of being in love. And at some point, you've been broken by your partner. At first, you felt like okay, it doesn't matter, but after a long day, you feel burden because it is not something that you want to experience. A broken heart is not easy recovering. It took time.
Like I said, broken hearts took time to heal. There are stages for you to heal to a better state. We sometimes focus on past and still cling on that memory, that is why we can't move forward. We believe that the past can be corrected, but, that is not how we do it. The past is past, what future is now. We learned from the past. You still cling to your ex because you are still thinking that you can go back to the past. Take time to recover and move forward.
3) You expect too much from your relationship.
Often, when we first in love, we expect too much in our relationship without any further discussion with each other or maybe it just one-side love only. And when this happens, we tend to plan what your future is, your wedding, your kids, and so on. You have faith in that situation where you confidently think that your relationship will go far. Well, it's not like everything is possible. You still cling on him or her, because "YOU" want your relationship to go perfect well by what your plan is and not both of you. Stop expecting too much or you will get hurt.