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Dorm number 14 - short stories 2020

See, Write, and Post-it. Our eyes see and record every memory that goes on in life.
It's raining outside, drizzling, and cold. I looked at my phone, it's 5.45 O'clock in the evening. It was a gloomy Saturday, I was at home, alone again. Thinking of my little sister but she was with my dad. And I am stuck with my mom.  It's been a month, I'm living with my mother. Only the two of us. I missed my dad, and my little sister, she was 10 years old. But, they both live in the cities. We had a family issue, my father and mother got divorced, not long ago. I haven't seen my dad and sister for a year. This grown-up thing messed up my childhood.   
I still contact my dad, video call with him, and my little sister. I am 8 years older than her. But, we both really close to each other. I am now 18 years old, finally, I can make my own decision, and I hope I got an opportunity to go to the cities. Being away from home. I love my mom, but I don't like her boyfriend. She seem…

How to move on from a heartbreak?

Everyone had a time where they have been broken. Apart from family issues, the same as the relationship with the partner. Each year we saw different people with different issues. But, here the facts, heartbreak sucks. It took time to heal but in the process of healing, there's a lot to learn.

But, how would you do it, if you had a heartbreak?

And I am really sure, that the statements below, some would help you and some were not because we all had a different point of view. And we had a different timeline and situation. Nevertheless, here we are, how to move on from a heartbreak.

How to move on from heartbreak?


1) Take that as a positive thing.

To take it as a positive thing might be difficult because we are hurting and at the same time, we are healing. What the most terrible thing when you had a heartbreak is you can help your heart being ache, you can't sleep, you crying and take it as a crucial time for you. Who wants to be hurt? No one. It is the last thing you want to happen in your life, it is not a good choice but it's an experience. To take that as a positive thing, create a great moment for you even it is bad. If you hadn't been in that situation, you would never know what others were felt after a heartbreak. This statement seems odd, take that as a positive thing to make you a better person in handling the feeling.

2) Go out with your friends.

When you had the experience of heartbreak, being alone is not a good choice. Because you will remember all of the memories you were with her or with him. Spend a little time with your friends. Go walk around or anywhere, speak what came from your mind and tell them your problem. Just being around with your friends, share about a business plan or whatever the thing is. However, stop talking about the relationship if you are still in the condition of sadness. 

3) Workout.

Search a hobby that puts you busy, so that you don't need to think about any else. Especially if you were hurtful. Go workout, let out a sweat instead of tears. Be healthy for your body and your soul. Don't get too emotional to whatever happens in your life. You deserve to be happy and make some change in your life not just by meeting new people, but being healthy and fit. 




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