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Why you should forgive others? | Lisa Maurie

We were easily getting hurt, but to forgive took a long time to think. Why?

Once we were hurt by someone we love, the trust had been broken, and we had a trusting issue with that person.

It easy to love but it is hard to break up.

Thus, you feel empty while you hoping someone would fill the happiness for you.

You felt betrayed, hurting inside, and sad. You never thought that you will come to those experiences. Therefore, it is hard for you to forgive someone.

To remind the same thing, again and again, make you felt pity for yourself, and you came out with a lot of questions.

The same as what would happen for a personal problem. When he or she had a fight with a friend, it's hard to forgive that person.

Because of the ego they had, felt undefeatable, unforgiveness, and the burden, it is so hard to say 'sorry' for each other.

Nevertheless, hate can be defeated by kindness, loving, and care for each other.

Sometimes you just had to be bold to forgive others, because we are human beings and we make mistakes.

Read also: December with kindness, season on giving

Why you should forgive others?

1) Remember that we are not perfect

My friend once told me that no matter how good I am, they will always someone who is much better than we are. It's to remind us that to always be humble out of circumstances. And we are lacking at some point, and yet we are not perfect. So, everybody makes a mistake.

2) To respect others feeling

We might not know what others had been through throughout their life. There is a reason why certain things we're meant to happen. Because we all are human beings, we are blessed with sensitivity. Respect others by forgiving for whatever reason they had done to you.

3) To teach others to love each other

Forgive others like what you want people to say that to you. Teach others that, even though this world is a tough one, you still can forgive others. 

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