As I gaze out my window at the sky while watching my children sleep, the brisk winds remind me of a building that I once lived in, wherein I saw, sensed, and were horrified, an encounter with which I'm not comfortable speaking. Fortunately, everything turned up okay. My name is Herman, but my friends called me Er, and the following is a story of what occurred to me 23 years ago. I have had a passion for writing since a kid. Now my guardian thinks I can go even farther. Consequently, they help me submit an authorship application and enrol in further linguistic, writing, and journalistic courses. Little did I realise that I'd be given a job to help me improve my abilities while simultaneously taking part-time writing courses to support my income. I was a young twenty-year-old at the time. Too young, yet inquisitive and willing to try new things. As a young author, the chance pushed me to go outside my comfort zone and acquire essential experience. Pay attention to the sound
Breakthrough your fear:
When I was a teenager, I was scared of public speaking; when the teacher asks me to participate in public speaking, I can't sleep the whole week because I was frightened and had no confidence.
I was nervous because I've never done it before. By standing in front of a lot of people got me panicking. I'm scared of what others will commenting on me.
There are times when we have to deal with our fear. It took sacrifices etc., your shyness.
Once my old friend said, "If you never try, you never know."
One day, we have to overcome that fear because it's become the barrier between us and the goals we want to achieve.
The fear can come in any way, such as making a choice, in a school presentation, live talking, and in anything you do. So, how can we break through that fear?
Breakthrough your fear:
1) It's a normal thing
Remember that fear of something is a regular thing. Everyone experiences the same thing. Whenever you felt insecure or low self-esteem, keep in mind that everybody had to go through the same phase. It only depends on how you respond to it. Yes, we get scared but don't let that scared thing wipe out your happiness. Learn to grow through your fear.
2) You should go beyond your comfort zone
Most people wanted to stay in their comfort zone, where they are familiar with, easy to go through with. If you remain in a comfort zone and won't try out or face your fear, you won't prepare for what is worst in front of you. If you want to break through your fear, feel comfortable doing the uncomfortable things.
3) Just do it
Did you know that most successful people didn't just plan on their work, but they go for it? If you want to do something more significant (your dream or etc.), feel the fear and learn to go through it. In whatever circumstances, fear will always there. That's the barrier that you need to overcome. No one could push it for you unless yourself.
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