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    The Oak Garden Building | Short Story 2021

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    7 simple rules for a happy life -

    See, Write, and Post-it. Our eyes see and record every memory that goes on in life.

    Everyone can be happy, but a slight difference in life experiences can change the way people see the perspective of happiness. 

    Life can be so challenging and sad sometimes; losing people, lose a job, lose everything could bring life to unhappiness. 

    Nevertheless, it's all in your hand, choose to be happy or not. These are the few simple rules for a happy life.

    7 simple rules for a happy life

    1)    Make peace with your past

    We all had past memories. 

    Whether it is something that good to remember or not, we still had our past. Bad memory sometimes leads to regret, hatefulness, and blaming ourselves. We wish that lot of our history could be changed.

    Any past memories that can destroy who you are right now, we want that to change. But, logically, it's impossible. So to be happy, you need to let go of your past and focus on the present.

    2)    Don't compare yourself with others

    You should never compare yourself with others. 

    Comparison steals your happiness. 

    Everyone had their own timeline, no one is too late, and no one is too early, don't live based on what you compare with. You are on your own way.

    3)    Smile often

    One of the easiest things to be happy is to smile often. Even you had a lot of things going on in your head, smile. Don't stress out your life because of a problem; take time to rest.

    Happy people are those who choose to let their smile brighten a day.

    Smiling not helping to wipe all the problem, but it allows you to remember that things make you happy.  

    4)    Don't live based on other standards

    For some cases, yes, live based on standard, especially in work attitude and school. You had to follow their standard to pass at a certain level. 

    But, your daily life, living day, and how you socialise with others should not be compare based on other standards. 

    Don't try to impress everyone. Don't stress yourself because you had to be live like what other people want you to be. Make your own choice, a wise choice.

    5)    What others think of you is none of your business

    We live with different background of people, different language, and society. We all had a story to tell, share, and talk with. 

    And sometimes, when we are too often seeing people and socialising more, we often think about what people see in us. 

    Or, in simple terms, we worried about what others think of us. People can think whatever they want about other life, but don't let that destroy who you are; it's their business.

    6)    Time will heal

    To heal a wound take time. 

    Rules to be happy is giving yourself healing, rest, and don't rush. While you living in despair because of the wound, let the time flow and heal every second of your hatred, sadness, and question. 

    It's a slow process, but indeed, it will heal you.

    7)    Don't expect to have all the answer

    It's okay to not know all of the answers. 

    Throughout life, you learned new thing. If you can't find the answer, don't force yourself to get one. 

    Don't be hard on yourself; sometimes it was meant not to know every answer; stop being overthinking; it's okay to be less severe and enjoy every moment.

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