Once upon a time, there was a girl named Emily who had just started college. She was a bright and ambitious young woman, but she had never been in love before. That is, until she met Daniel. Daniel was charming, confident, and had a smile that could light up a room. Emily was smitten from the moment she laid eyes on him. They started dating and it wasn't long before they were inseparable. But as time went on, Emily began to notice some things about Daniel that bothered her. He was often late for their dates, and sometimes he would cancel at the last minute. He also seemed to have a wandering eye, checking out other girls even when Emily was right there beside him. Emily started to feel like she was second best, like Daniel wasn't really that into her. But whenever she tried to talk to him about it, he would charm her with his smile and she would forget all about her doubts. Things came to a head one night when Emily went to surprise Daniel at his apartment. She walked in to fin
Lesson to learn:
A month ago, I had a reunion with my alumni from the college. They are my friends, and we had a little conversation about our job, our status, our future, and some other stuff. We had a drink in a small cafe that only consists of few people. And there are fives of us, some of my friends can't make it because they were all busy with their own commitment.
So, we talked about our life; it was awkward because they all had their own way of living. And if I had to rank on our progress, I'd be the lowest among them. Honestly, I was so immersed in their stories, how much hard work they put into their dream. Some of them were having a hard life, but they able to go through that process.
To compare their stories with my life and how far they went is something that I can not imagine. For a moment, I felt that my life sucked, and I was far behind everyone. But the truth is, some people had a hard time but never complained about it but still can make it.
Realising that life must go on:
At that moment, I realise that I should never complain about what I'm not able to achieve. Instead of complaining, I should have put more hard work into it and try my best to develop it. I know it would be a hard process but seeing all my friends that being able to fight that obstacle, I told myself that I can make it.
It is a struggle in life, especially when you had to confront all the people who think that you might not make it through. I tried my best to confront all of my fears. However, it takes so much courage and patience. Sometimes I had to give up because I just not that strong.
Push to be e better person:
Little that I know, being in that situation actually build yourself and change how you think, how you change that situation into something that fires up your spirit. If I push myself and do something that I am good at, it will be okay.
We are living in this world not based on what people define us. But it's true, everybody can judge us, but not everybody can let our guard down. Even though we felt like we are falling behind, and people see us as no future, remember you just need time to develop, and you are still progressing.
Nevertheless, if we still not see any progress in life, give it time for ourselves. Our time will come soon, but in the meantime, enjoy the progress.
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