Skip to main content

Download my Free Printable Blog planner!

    We respect your privacy. Unsubscribe at anytime.

    Recent post

    The Oak Garden Building | Short Story 2021

    As I gaze out my window at the sky while watching my children sleep,  the brisk winds remind me of a building that I once lived in,  wherein I saw, sensed, and were horrified,  an encounter with which I'm not comfortable speaking.  Fortunately, everything turned up okay. My name is Herman, but my friends called me Er, and the following is a story of what occurred to me 23 years ago. I have had a passion for writing since a kid. Now my guardian thinks I can go even farther. Consequently, they help me submit an authorship application and enrol in further linguistic, writing, and journalistic courses. Little did I realise that I'd be given a job to help me improve my abilities while simultaneously taking part-time writing courses to support my income. I was a young twenty-year-old at the time. Too young, yet inquisitive and willing to try new things. As a young author, the chance pushed me to go outside my comfort zone and acquire essential experience.  Pay attention to the sound

    How to make the right decision? |

    How to make the right decision? | seewriteandpost.comHere comes the worst nightmare for me, choosing the way of living. 

    Once my friend said, "The way we were thinking were never be the same as we were children, while we were still in a teenager, we ought to think about the exam, homework, who will we befriend with. And now, we are much older, we were thinking of how we suppose to live?".

    The same question comes into my head. Making a DECISION. How to make the right decision?

    In early October, I was struggling with what decision on either to quit the job or not. It is not because of the environment, not because of its staff. I just wanted to take a break and get away from a busy life.

    Although, for a long time, I'm becoming with no entitled job. But still, today, I choose to quit my job. But I think most people would agree that I make the stupidest decision in life.

    "How you suppose to pay for your bills?"
    "How you suppose to pay for your car?"
    "Utility? School? Parent?"
    Bla... Bla... Bla...

    A little bit of disappointment. But, let make it positive. Indeed you had the correct answer on why you had to choose a decision. But making a decision must come with a plan. You can't simply make a decision without any plan onwards. 

    How to make the right decision?

    If you were given a choice to choose between two or more blank spaces, you could choose the best answer. Isn't it? But, every choice you make comes with consequences. No matter what answer you pick, it always comes with a reason. Sometimes it hard, and sometimes it easy. Like it or not, you had to deal with it.

    1) Know what you are doing 

    Guess not everybody had the same vision as you do. Speaking of the decision on what choice we make, it is our responsibility. Most of my friend was stressful because they choosing the wrong decision.

    Everybody makes mistakes, including me. Neither you choose the best or worst decision; you must ready to experiences after-effect.

    And of course, you should have a clear vision of why you choose a decision. You can't make a decision without putting much concern into it. It would turn your life messy.

    2) Come with a plan

    You choose the excellent decision, you had to move on, you choose the wrong decision, you still had to move on. As long as I'm not troubling anybody, then it's the right choice to pick. 

    But, sometimes, a good choice turns into regrets. Yes, It's a shame to make a wrong decision, but life goes on. That is why planning should be implemented in making a decision.

    Once you have set your decision goal, you have to gather information about it and make some plan so your decision can be considered the right decision.

    How to make the right decision? |

    3) Consider the consequences

    Once in a while, we have to make a wrong choice so that we learn from that. That is why a decision that we make doesn't necessarily a good choice. 

    Before carrying on with your decision, you already plan it and list the consequences. From there you prepare yourself, for a backup plan. 

    4) Proceed with your plan

    After you set your goal (you know what you are doing) and analyze any possible plan or backup on your decision, then you can proceed with your plan.

    If it turns worst, then you already know the consequences and preparing for a better plan. In this way, it relaxes your mind to not overthinking.


    Not everyone can make the right decision, and sometimes it turns to be the worst decision. Don't worry, because we learn something from that. But yeah, making a decision must come with a plan.

    Read also:


    Most viewed post

    Tutorial on how to buy the domain and hosting web from NetKL Network

    When I decided to start a blog, I choose the Blogspot platform because it's easy to monitor. Read also: 5 reasons you should start a Blog | And if you wanted to have a more professional blog, you should have a domain . Domain vs Subdomain? A domain  is an address of your website that people type in the browser URL bar to visit your website. A subdomain is a domain that is part of a larger domain. Meaning that it is an additional part of your domain. For example, my first blog was named (subdomain), which I change to  (domain). Unfortunately, Blogspot does not provide a domain for Malaysia. So, to have a domain address, you have to buy it. So, in today's blog, I will teach you how to buy a domain and hosting from the  NetKL Network  website. Why choose NetKL Network? Through this Website, you can learn more about their services and their offering apart from selling a domain and h

    20 Psychology Facts about Depression -

    What is Depression? Depression is a mood disorder, it is a feeling of sadness , a loss , and  anger  that interferes with a person's daily life. It is an illness that can be treated but also can lead to an emotional and physical problem affecting a person's activities either at home or work. According to the American Psychiatric Association , depression symptoms can vary from mild to severe, the symptoms must last at least two weeks for a diagnosis of depression. Feeling sad or having a depressed mood Loss of interest or pleasure in activities once enjoyed Changes in appetite Weight loss or gain unrelated to dieting Trouble sleeping or sleeping too much Loss of energy or increased fatigue Increase in purposeless physical activity or slowed movements and speech Feeling worthless or guilty Difficulty thinking, concentrating or making decisions Thoughts of death or suicide

    20 Psychology Facts about human behaviors -

    What is Psychology? Psychology is the study of human feelings and thought. It is related to behavior and the mind. Psychologists are the people who seek an understanding of the brain. They explore the behavior and mental processes in humans. Source: Psychology - Wikipedia What is the reason to study Psychology? The simple reason is, Psychology is fun. Psychology helps us to understand more about ourselves. Develop critical thinking. You communicate better with others. It helps you to understand other people. Photo by Geralt 20 PSYCHOLOGY FACTS ABOUT HUMAN BEHAVIORS We don't predict our reaction to future events very well. Money spent on experiences will always hold greater value to you. It is a proven fact that when you are faced with a bigger challenge, you drive to do it and do it better to become stronger too. You can judge a person by noticing how they treat an unknown person. Research shows that just thinking about a plan B can make it les

    How to change your URL Blogspot to the custom domain using NetKL Network ?

    To make a website, you need  Domain and Hosting. What are Domain and Hosting? A domain  is the address of the website, for example, . A Hosting is inside the server to store website files such as pictures, writing, video, audio, and others. Read also: Tutorial on how to buy the domain and hosting web from NetKL network 2020 However, for URL Blogspot, you do not need to buy hosting because the Blogspot itself is hosting. You just need to find a domain provider such as, and NetKL Network. But, I prefer NetKL Network. To know more about this website, click here, NetKL Network . Photo by mohamed_hassan So, let's get started. Step 1 - Click the NetKL Network website, and it will look like this. Then, click Domain > Custom domain services > Use at (without email package). Step 2 - Choose the CDS Blogger Plan (without email package) with only RM10. The description is shown

    How the conversation started 12 years ago |

    There's a quote says by a famous person, "If you find someone you love in your life, then hang on to that love." - Princess Diana. Twelve years ago, I had a crush on one person. He played the guitar at the church. He was a best friend to my other friend, so I'm not really close to him. He was funny and sometimes quiet too. I was interested in his character. I was 16, and he was 18 years old at that time.  Well, you know what people say, love is blind for a kid, and I realise that I was still underage at that time. Having a relationship is not my kind of thing when I was still 16 years old. But still, having a crush is not a crime. So, I kept that feeling until I was at college. At the age of 18, I got an offer to school away from my hometown.  Because I kept my feeling for so long, sometimes when I return to my hometown for a semester break, I will give him a present. Looking back on that memories, it was funny, though. He was 20 at that time. Sure did, I tried to