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The biggest challenge in my life is by choosing the right decision. Is it for a better or worst? 

Image result for making a decisionHere comes the worst nightmare for me, choosing the way of living. Once my friend said, "The way we were thinking were never be the same as we were children, while we were still in a teenager, we ought to think about the exam, homework, who will we befriend with. And now, we are much older, we were thinking of how we suppose to live?".

The same question comes into my head. Making a DECISION. How to make the right decision?

How to make the right decision?

If you were given a choice to choose between two or more blank spaces, you suppose to choose the best answer. Isn't it? But, every choice you make, comes with consequences. No matter what answer you pick, it always comes with a reason. Sometimes it hard and sometimes it easy. Like it or not, you had to deal with it.

In early October, I was struggling with what decision on either to quit the job or not. It is not because of the environment, not because of its staff. I just wanted to take a break and get away from a busy life. Although, for a long time I'm becoming with no entitled job. But still, today I choose to quit my job. But I think most people would agree that I make the stupidest decision in life.

"How you suppose to pay for your bills?"
"How you suppose to pay for your car?"
"Utility? School? Parent?"
Bla... Bla... Bla...

A little bit of disappointment. But, let make it positive, surely you had the right answer on why you had to choose a decision. But making a decision must come with a plan. You can't simply make a decision without any plan onwards. 

Know what you are doing and ready for the consequences

Guess not everybody had the same vision as you do. Speaking of the decision on what choice we make, it is our responsibility. Most of my friend was stressful because they choosing the wrong decision. Everybody makes mistakes, including me. Neither you choose the best or worst decision, you must ready to experiences after-effect.

Keep moving on

You choose the good decision, you had to move on, you choose the bad decision, you still had to move on. As long as I'm not troubling anybody, then it's the right choice to pick. But, sometimes what we think a good choice, turns into regrets. Yes, It's a shame to make a bad decision, but life goes on. That is why planning should be implemented in making a decision.

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