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    The Oak Garden Building | Short Story 2021

    As I gaze out my window at the sky while watching my children sleep,  the brisk winds remind me of a building that I once lived in,  wherein I saw, sensed, and were horrified,  an encounter with which I'm not comfortable speaking.  Fortunately, everything turned up okay. My name is Herman, but my friends called me Er, and the following is a story of what occurred to me 23 years ago. I have had a passion for writing since a kid. Now my guardian thinks I can go even farther. Consequently, they help me submit an authorship application and enrol in further linguistic, writing, and journalistic courses. Little did I realise that I'd be given a job to help me improve my abilities while simultaneously taking part-time writing courses to support my income. I was a young twenty-year-old at the time. Too young, yet inquisitive and willing to try new things. As a young author, the chance pushed me to go outside my comfort zone and acquire essential experience.  Pay attention to the sound

    Be grateful for what you have -

    See, Write, and Post-it. Our eyes see and record every memory that goes on in life.

    Wouldn't it be great if we had everything? 
    Will it satisfy us for having it all?

    Having everything in your life is such a blessing. So, be thankful for it. Remember how far you go to be where you are right now.

    What is the meaning of gratitude?

    Gratitude is something that you thankful for, appreciate what you have or what you've been living.

    Some people were trying to have everything so that they can show some gratitude. They waited to have a perfect way of living instead of just use everything they had. Time does not wait, so enjoy the little things and use what you had.

    Beforehand, I always thought that I must have everything so that I can please my parent. But guess what, even you had enough in your life, you had a lot of money, or having a successful career, that does not guarantee their happiness. 

    What they need right now? Your precious time.

    People will grow old, so does our parent. So, that thought had made me realise that I don't have to wait to be successful; I can start right now in a slow process while spending my time for them. I didn't see that I had more than enough to be thankful for everything.

    I am so grateful for what I have right now. Even people see it like a small thing, the happiness in me that does matter to me. 

    Don't get me wrong, I don't mean telling people that being successful or wealthy is not okay. But, on the contrary, it is a blessing of having both of them. Because some people were working far away from their hometown to fulfil their families.

    Keep going on that. My message is to spread, be grateful for everything you had, neither you rich nor poor, because we don't know what will happen in the future. So be thankful for every moment and breath you had.

    Make more memories with your loved one, and always be thankful.

    How to be grateful?

    The perks of being grateful are you'll be happy even though you are so lacking in everything. But, the question now is how to be a thankful person?

    When I was down with my life, I see the people surrounding me being happy and enough with their properties. So I was jealous and thought, when will I become one of them?

    The only thing I was doing is complaining and comparing without doing any act of getting out of that situation.

    I don't know their hard work and how much money, tears, and losses they encounter to be where they are right now.

    Humans are always like that; they only satisfied looking at the result of other people but never count how much burden they had made, but still complaining and criticising.

    How to be grateful?

    1. Focus on your life - Stop criticising others and focus on growing yourself. If you have time to comment on others, then you indeed have time to improve yourself.

    2. Stop comparing - Comparison will steal your happiness. Everyone had their own journey.

    3. Enjoy a little thing - If you can be grateful for a bit of something, what else if you had a more remarkable thing. 
    If you don't know what to be grateful for, remember that you still breathing and alive.

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